It’s really absurd. You can track someone’s exact location with Find My, but god forbid they need to use your car and keys with an AirTag on it. It couldn’t be simpler to ask the person permission to allow people to share their AirTags. Hell, have a weekly or monthly reminder that you’re sharing an AirTag with someone that you have to actively acknowledge. The way they do it now is LESS secure. To not be annoying you have to disable all AirTag safety alerts.