My personal style signifier is a pants door The wind, a French workwear brand that uses a beautiful overalls dye. They were available for a year or so when I was in my twenties – it was a collaboration with J Crew – and I bought every pair in my size. I’ve lost a few over the years, but at one point I had about 10 pairs, and I probably had about five or six left. I like to wear monochrome, so I usually match it with Faithful‘s blue cotton travel polo shirts. € 126
The last thing I bought and loved was a work of Canadian artist Zoe Barcza. It is a face that appears from liberated ink stains that bleed out in paper. I bought it at Platform, the business I helped start, which brings together young artists from independent galleries by compiling a monthly selection of 100 new artworks.
And on my wish list is a custom suit. I’ve never had one. But I would like a beautiful blue suit Hunter in a light, breathable fabric that fits like a glove. From £ 3,500
The gadget I could not do without is mine recognizable tablet -a digital notebook. I’m working on a book by Virginia Woolf’s art critic for David Zwirner Books, so I read the proof on my tablet. It makes things very seamless. noticeable 2, £ 399
The place where I can not wait to go back na is the Giotto’s Arena Chapel in Padua, Italy, built in the 14th century. It’s powerful – you can see his whole vision. I first visited at the time when I was 19 with my girlfriend, and I discussed three time slots back-to-back.
And the best souvenirs I brought home are postcards. There was a time I had hundreds, and I would put it down around my desk while I was a student in Yale. In the center was the main altarpiece of the Arena Chapel, which I surrounded with a mixture of northern and Italian Renaissance art. It was wonderful to watch them while I was studying Greek and Latin.
My style icon is Samuel Beckett. He has a carefree elegance that I find captivating. I also love the rapper Cam’ron, who regularly dresses in pink monochrome – pink mink, pink sneakers, pink everything.
The best gift I gave recently is a pre-1910 box office of Gray and Davis, a vintage jewelry store in New York. Ali and Rick Miller, who run it, get incredible pieces from special eras, and this necklace was once an old watch necklace with an image of St George killing the dragon. Similar to $ 1,950
And the best gift I got recently is a reissued Kareem Abdul-Jabbar Milwaukee Bucks Basketball Hat. The Bucks won the NBA Finals this year. I watched them excitedly.
The podcast I’m listening to is Forgotten: Women of Juárez, a series of 10 episodes of iHeartRadio about a number of women who went missing in Juárez, a border town in northern Mexico. This is a wonderful piece of investigative journalism.
I have a collection of books – over 1,000. My Manhattan apartment has a library with floor-to-ceiling shelves overflowing so much that it leads to the bedroom, living room, and my home in Montauk. The text I appreciate the most is a three-volume German edition of Robert Musil The man without qualities, of The man without qualities.
In my fridge you will always find many SodaStream bottles. I like water that you can carbonize yourself – it’s better for the environment. Since New York opened, I have eaten a lot, so there is not much else in my fridge. But if I am entertaining, I will make a classic bolognese, but I recently added dried porcini mushrooms. SodaStream Starter Kit, £ 69.99
With time on my hands, I visit galleries in New York’s Lower East Side with my sister, Marlene. I especially like James Fuentes, Essex Street and JTT – we do it regularly on the weekends.
The last piece of clothing I added to my wardrobe was some olive Air Jordan 9s. They were released in 2012 for a year, so it’s pretty rare. Every few years I see someone wearing them, and this year I decided to stand outside for an hour Flying Club, the sneaker store, and buy my own. I’m sure people will think I’m crazy because I wear it – most keep it in a shrink fold. From $ 661
An object I would never part with is a collage by Raymond Pettibon, which I have known since I was 11 years old. He used the covers of all these incredible books – Shakespeare plays, Walt Whitman and Ruskin. I keep it in my living room.
The food I’ve never been to is Tom’s from Mainesee Wild Lavender deodorant. I do not wear cologne, but I like the smell of lavender, so I use it every day.
If I did not do what I do, I would be a novelist. There are definitely some bad book manuscripts in a drawer from my student days, and I’m just thankful that my real novelist friends kept me from following the publication. Being an artist is a calling – you do not want to be just one. But I certainly reject writers in particular.
The best book I’ve read in the last year is The Netanyahus by Joshua Cohen, a friend of mine. It is a fictional depiction of Benzion Netanyahu, the father of Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, who was recently deposed. It was dedicated to the late Professor Harold Bloom, and it ends with a beautiful memory.
A recent “find” is Buenos Aires, a restaurant near Tompkins Square Park in New York. This is an authentic Argentinian steakhouse with a wonderful backyard. You order steak, of course, but I also like to get a mixed grill.
My favorite room in my house is my bedroom in Montauk. It has a balcony that overlooks the ocean so I can hear the waves at night. It’s pretty economical – there’s a shelf of books above my head, a few side tables and a dresser. Then just a big sliding door that opens onto the balcony, the sea and the wind.
I recently rediscovered that I like watching basketball. The friend who gave me the Abdul-Jabbar hat took me to look at the Bucks, and I realized how much I love the camaraderie of being invested in a team. I played basketball in high school, but it was not the last part of my life for a long time.
A pleasure I would never give up is Sprüngli chocolate. It is a very good noisette chocolate with whole roasted hazelnuts inside. I like to eat it after dinner.
The one artist whose work I would collect if I could is the 17th-century Spanish painter Diego Velázquez. I recently saw his portrait of Philip IV of Spain as part of the Frick Reef at The Met Breuer building, and I was amazed.
My care guru is my hairdresser Jason Kong. I do not know if I have been particularly well groomed, but Jason has been cutting my hair for over a decade. And now he has called his own place in the East Village Techni -salon.
The last music I downloaded is by American singer-songwriter Alice Smith. There was a wonderful show in the New Museum earlier this year called Sadness and Grief, and part of the exhibition was a video by filmmaker Kahlil Joseph. The film is a tribute to Alice Smith and Joseph’s brother, who died about the time the piece was made. Since watching it, I have been listening to Alice repeatedly; she has an amazing track called “Fool For You”.